Parenting Your Strong-Willed Child: The Importance of the Walk

Do you have a strong-willed child?

The kind that you see screaming and throwing tantrums at the grocery store? Or in Sunday school?
Yep, I had one of those.
The kind you actually think might NEED medication?
Even though you can’t believe you are thinking that?
Here’s our story.
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When you have a child like this, it is easy to feel like a failure as a parent.
This kind of kid tests all of your reserve strength. This kind of child teaches you to pray!

Our first child was extremely strong willed.

I even talked to our Christian doctor about my daughter. I was ready to put her on medication to help me keep my own sanity. But . . . Continue reading “Parenting Your Strong-Willed Child: The Importance of the Walk”

Homeschooling Basics: Getting Started

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Welcome to homeschooling! I have homeschooled my four and been working with homeschoolers for over 30 years. Here are the Basics to help you get started so you can have a happy homeschooling experience.

Your schooling style will need to fit your family and its needs, but it will also have to meet the requirements of your state and school district. See below for more resources for your specific state! In New York we have to notify the school district within 15 days.

Homeschooling: You Need Some Books

Generally with home schooling, you purchase and teach the subjects your child needs.  Whatever you are teaching, please join me on Homeschool Christian Mom group on Facebook for additional support. If you are having difficulty with finding curriculum or other resources, I can help you in that forum.

There are very good boxed all-in-one curriculums out there. I used and recommend BJU Press Homeschool curriculum for all my kids K thru 12. You can do parent led where you teach or purchase the DVD’s or get the same material through the computer. For any of those ways, there are recommendations for grading or they do it for you. I love the BJU curriculum because they have thought of everything. Subjects are well put together, they list tons of extra resources if you need it and all the prep work is done. On day one, you teach lesson one, etc. So the value of that kind of complete curriculum was worth every penny to me. Continue reading “Homeschooling Basics: Getting Started”

Ethiopian Chicken Stew: Doro We’t

This image shows how an Ethiopian dish might be displayed on a plate.

My husband grew up in Ethiopia and loves this Ethiopian Chicken Stew. It is spicy but delicious. It is amazing that a country that has historically been so impoverished has beriberi, a rich combination of aromatic spices that makes their food unique.

We hope your family will enjoy our version of this chicken stew. If you are near an Ethiopian restaurant, this is best eaten with the large Ethiopian sourdough pancake called injera made from teff flour. Injera is difficult to make in the American home kitchen but does enhance this spicy dish.

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Ethiopian Chicken Stew: Doro Wot

This spicy chicken stew is a favorite of my husband who grew up in Ethiopia. We think you'll like it, too.

Course Main Course
Cuisine Ethiopian
Keyword chicken, chicken stew, Doro wot
Prep Time 1 hour
Cook Time 2 hours
Servings 6

Ingredients

  • 1.5 -2 lbs chicken drumsticks
  • 4 large sweet onions chopped
  • 1 lb red shallots chopped
  • 2 tbsp Berbere an Ethiopian combination of peppery spices. Because the heat index of this spice varies, I recommend starting out with 2 tbsp, adding as needed up to 1/2 cup.
  • 1 stick blue bonnet margarine or butter extra butter as needed up to 1 stick
  • 1/4 tsp cardamom
  • 1/4 tsp black pepper
  • 2 tsp cumin
  • 1 dash ground cloves
  • 1 tsp garlic powder
  • 1 tsp powdered ginger
  • 2 tsp salt, to taste
  • 2 tbsp paprika
  • 2 chicken bouillon cubes
  • 1 cup water and more as needed
  • 6-8 eggs hard boiled

Instructions

  1. Wash chicken drumsticks. thoroughly. Slash chicken drumsticks to aid in even cooking. Set aside.

  2. Place the eggs in the saucepan in cool water, covering with water by 1 inch. Heat to boiling and slowly bring water to a boil over medium heat; when the water has reached a boil, cover and remove from heat. Let sit 12 minutes.

  3. Cool eggs by adding cold water to your pan. This stops the cooking and keeps the whites from getting rubbery.

  4. In a large frying pan, cook onions until golden brown, stirring frequently. This will take at least 10-15 minutes.

  5. Add berbere to onions and cook for one minute.

  6. Add 1 stick margarine or butter. When the margarine is melted, stir mixture together thoroughly and add to stock pan.

  7. Keep mixture over medium heat and add 1/2 cup water and 2 chicken bouillon cubes.

  8. Add spices and mix throughly (cardamom, cumin, garlic powder, cloves, ginger, salt and paprika.

  9. Add prepared chicken pieces. Add water as needed to barely cover chicken pieces. Simmer for 40 minutes, stirring gently.

  10. This is a good time to peel the eggs. Add the whole eggs to the stew mixture so they can absorb some the flavor.

  11. Taste and add more salt or berbere as needed. If the mixture is too spicy, add more margarine/butter.

  12. Serve hot. Makes 6 servings. Store in the refrigerator.

  13. Good side dishes: Grits, rice, collards, lentils. Serve with injera or bread.

Recipe Notes

Berbere can be purchased here https://amzn.to/4gYnnEt

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Other favorites:

Recipes: Breakfast/ Snacks

Cranberry Orange Muffins These healthy muffins substitute apple sauce for some of the sugar and have a nice flavor zing because the dried cranberries are plumped in orange juice.

Recipes: Entrees

Carrot Crust (amazing) Buffalo Chicken Pizza Gluten free and delicious, appetizer or entree

Cheese and Sausage Stuffed Zucchini Admittedly this recipe gets used often at the end of summer, but it is good year round.

Cheesy Grits and Cajun Shrimp  I love comfort food!


ABOUT ELIZABETH ESTELLE

Elizabeth Estelle, homeschooling mom of four amazing children, and now a grandmother. She has been married to her college sweetheart for over 40 years. She loves the Lord, teaches, writes, mentors ladies, and likes to cook. She cleans as needed. In her spare time she enjoys teaching art. She led a homeschool co-op for 24 years. Now, she wants to encourage homeschooling families to persevere and be successful in their own homeschool adventure, kindergarten through high school.

If you are serious about raising your children for the Lord and homeschooling, let’s connect:

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15 Homeschool Activities for Kids: Keeping Learning Fun at Home (Rent)

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Check out the recent Rent. article we were
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Homeschooling offers a unique opportunity for parents to engage with their children in a way that fits their individual needs and learning styles. Whether you’re homeschooling in your new home in Idaho Falls, IDapartment in Murray, UT, or rental house in Westminster, CO, we’ll explore a variety of activities that will keep your kids engaged while helping them grow academically and personally. From science experiments to arts and crafts, there’s something exciting for every child.

From science experiments to arts and crafts, there’s
something exciting for every child.
Read the full article here: Homeschool Activities
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8. Lean on other homeschooling households

Leaning on other homeschool households for support can be an invaluable part of your homeschooling journey. Connecting with others who are going through similar experiences can provide a sense of community, reassurance, and shared resources.

“I find it quite necessary to find a cohort, co-op, or club for both you and your child to thrive in when homeschooling,” states Elizabeth Estelle, blogger at Homeschool Christian Mom. “You will all need friends and the support is amazing. These ladies have become some of my lifelong besties.”

Estelle also recommends finding a local group that offers homeschool participation days on a weekly or bi-weekly basis, along with opportunities to join sports, theater, and band programs.

Whether it’s swapping lesson ideas, attending group activities, or simply exchanging advice, these relationships can help reduce the feeling of isolation that can sometimes come with homeschooling.

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ABOUT ELIZABETH ESTELLE

Elizabeth Estelle, homeschooling mom of four amazing children, and now a grandmother. She has been married to her college sweetheart for over 40 years. She loves the Lord, teaches, writes, mentors ladies, and likes to cook. She cleans as needed. In her spare time she enjoys teaching art and creating it. She led a homeschool co-op for 24 years. Now, she wants to encourage homeschooling families to persevere and be successful in their own homeschool adventure, kindergarten through high school.

If you are serious about raising your children for the Lord and homeschooling, let’s connect:

Follow on Instagram  https://www.instagram.com/the.elizabeth.estelle/

Youtube HomeschoolChristianMom Elizabeth Estelle. https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCETqNNg5wQIbz6m6qUPgNnQ

Homeschooling Transformation

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Homeschooling Transformation can get your homeschooling back on track!

What if one day you look around and realize that you need to transform your home school or discipline in your household?  How can you accomplish needed homeschooling transformation?

If you just need a few ideas to get you on the right track, here are some examples of what worked for us:

The Toys Are Getting Dumped Out All The Time!

For example, what if you realize that your children dump all the toys over and over again all day long and you are sick and tired of the mess? You’ve tried a few things but nothing has worked. What do you do now?

My Homeschool Day IS Starting Later and Later!

Or your children are moving the start time of your home school day later and later in the morning?  Take the following steps to start over:

Homeschool Help: FIVE STEPS TO MAKE CHANGES:

ONE:  Have a family meeting.  Explain that you are going to be changing how you are going to be handling the situation. This is a great time to get Dad involved and show a united front with Mom.  (Make sure you and Dad are on the same page with the plan before the meeting! If you are not committed to being consistent and following through, don’t even start. #truth)

Example 1: We are not going to be dumping all the toys on the living room floor every day. We are going to have a new plan  that we are putting in place.

Example 2: We are not going to be starting our home school day later and later every morning.  It is not working for our family. We are going to have a new plan that we are putting in place.

TWO:  Identify the specific behavior that you want to see happen. Continue reading “Homeschooling Transformation”