Obedience is More Than An Action!

Teaching Obedience

If you have young children, you know that those early years are filled with explanations, rules to keep them safe, rules to keep you sane and lots of correction. How many times have you answered the “Why?” question today?

To help you teach obedience, use this whole child method to teach obedience for better results.

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Deal with the action of being obedient, the tone of voice, the facial expression, the body language and the heart of your child. Teaching these things will help your child move from being parent-controlled, to self-controlled to our wanted result of God-controlled!

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Yes, we need to monitor our children’s responses to see that they are obeying, answering with the right tone of voice, facial expression and body language.

Obedience: What’s Going on INSIDE your child?

AND we also need to address what is going on in their hearts and minds. We want them to be nice, obedient children but our REAL goal is to raise God-honoring children.

If you have never thought of having a mission statement for your home or homeschool, I recommend one! This article gives several examples and will help you get started: Homeschool Mission Statement: Is It Necessary?

When you have an end goal in mind, it is much easier to stay on track, avoid getting side-tracked, make decisions and reach your goal.

Of course we prayed for and with our children regularly. We pray at mealtimes, thanking the Lord for the food He has provided. We pray in the evenings, thanking the Lord for the blessings He has given us. We ask the Lord to help us have the wisdom we need as we raise the children He has given us!

He promises to help us and I hold onto those promises because I need His help!

If you feel your prayer life needs some assistance I recommend using a prayer notebook system.   You can have an organized system to pray through your requests, pray scripturally and track God’s answers in your life.

If you wonder what you should be praying for concerning your children, here are some ideas for you.

Obedience: we want our children to do the action of obeying.

But we also want them to use the right tone of voice: Why? Because that tone of voice reveals either an obedient heart or one that is still in rebellion to your requests. Some children do not naturally hear the difference in kind tone of voice compared to a sarcastic tone of voice. You will need to model the way you want your children to talk AND explain that by talking a different way, they are sending a different message!

Your child’s face often reveals if they are compliant or still angry! Show them the difference using a mirror if you need to. Usually they know when you are upset by your facial expression. Let them know that you can tell when they are upset too.

Body language also shows an obedient attitude. Make sure you are looking at the whole child to see if you are getting through to the most important part of him- his heart!

Talk to your child about their behavior. Direct disobedience has to be dealt with directly, but childish behavior (of which there is much!) needs to be taught and explained, over and over so that you can know your child understands the behavior that you are wanting.

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